Everything that Happened to You Explains Who You are

Everything that happened to you explains who you are. It explains why you are that way. Your genetics also explain who you are and why you are that way.

Some people who experience many tragedies, difficult circumstances, suffering, sadness, hatred, anger, abuse, attacks, many terrible people, or other serious problems for many years become hate filled negative people. It is understandable why they are that way. I was the same way for most of my life. I hated many people and myself for many years. I did not forgive. I very rarely forgave a few people. I held onto grudges. I chose hatred, anger, sadness, and hopelessness to control my mind and my life. Many people hurt me. But I chose hatred, anger, sadnesss, and hopelessness to control my mind and my life. No one forced me to choose those things to be my character. I chose them. I regret it.

But there is another group. Some people who experience many tragedies, difficult circumstances, suffering, sadness, hatred, anger, abuse, attacks, many terrible people, or other serious problems for many years become perseverant positive people. They choose to believe in hope and that there is good in this world. They don't want to hurt others like they've been hurt. It's like someone being bitten a poisonous snake. They can choose to remove that poison from their body, or allow that poison to consume them. They become the good they need in their lives and their world. It is better to try to make things better and die trying, rather than stay drowning in misery and hopelessness. That is who I became at the age of 28 since July 10, 2026.

Terrible things happen to many people. Including people who did not deserve those things, they're victims. Why does God allow suffering? Or for people who do not believe in God or religion, why is there suffering in this world? The honest answer for many is, "I don't know."

I'm not justifying, accepting, or condoning horrible things. Many terrible things happened to me. I had many evil, terrible people who hurt me deeply, made me mentally ill, insane, and ruined my life.

I'm just saying the reality of the universe.

Everything that happened to you explains who you are and why you are that way.

Negative people cause some people to also become negative people.

On the other side, negative people cause some people to become positive people. Because they don't want others to suffer like they did. They want to be the person they needed in the past. They want to be the change they need in this world.